Oct. 26, 2011

Everybody would like to have a peaceful and harmonious co existence with everyone. Nobody likes having enemies, issues, problems and misunderstandings. As much as we try to prevent clashes and fights from happening, sometimes due to one reason or another it happens to the best of us.

Many allow their emotion to influence them and make decisions due to the heat of the moment. When hot heads dominate the scene, reason and logic might be thrown out of the window. Thus, it sometimes results to permanent damaged relationships, bad images, destroyed reputations and personal or group conflicts. Thus, some people might wish they should have thought of it much better before doing something or saying something. Although, there are instances that even if one tries to settle things well and find solutions, if the other party does not want such, then there is a problem and sometimes legal remedies are needed to manage things.

If there is a chance that issues or conflicts can be settled in a diplomatic manner, so be it. I believe that everything and anything can be talked about as long as both parties are open and willing to resolve the issue. My father always tells me that in case of conflict, it is best to try to find remedies or to exhaust non legal steps to solve issues and problems among and between those in conflict. Some say that if it a problem is resolved, things or a relationship of whatever sort will be much better than before knowing that both parties do not want to break the trust anymore.

At the end of the day, all of us hope to say that all is well and that things are in it's rightful place.